A discreet introduction

Before confirming a date, I ask for screening. My usual option is a clear photograph of government issued ID and a selfie of you holding that ID. If the details on the ID are blurred or unreadable in the selfie, please send a separate clear photograph of the ID too. You may obscure personal information such as your home address.

Alternatively, I can consider two recent references from reputable providers you have met or a verifiable LinkedIn profile. I may ask for a work email to verify a LinkedIn profile. Please ask me which option suits before sending documents.

If you are arranging a date as a couple, I will need screening for both of you. Anyone joining a duo or group date should be agreed in advance.

Incalls & outcalls

I primarily offer outcalls, meeting you at your hotel or another suitable location we have agreed beforehand. Please include the area and venue when you enquire so I can allow for travel time.

If you would prefer an incall, I may be able to arrange a hotel for us with advance notice. The accommodation cost is yours and is separate from my rate. I will confirm the details with you before anything is booked.

Deposits & payment

A deposit reserves our time together. For dates shorter than four hours, it is 30% of the agreed rate. For dates of four hours or longer, it is 50%.

Bank transfer is my usual method, to an account with a discreet name. I can receive domestic and international transfers. If a bank transfer is not possible for you, please ask; we can discuss another deposit method privately.

The remaining balance and any travel or accommodation arrangements will be agreed before our date.

Consideration is attractive

Please arrive freshly showered, well groomed, with neatly trimmed fingernails and fresh breath. A gentleman who smells wonderful has a way of making me want to get a little closer. Please let me know promptly if plans, timing or the venue change. I value discretion and privacy and I will offer you the same. If anyone else will join us, tell me before the date so everyone knows what to expect.

For a date longer than four hours, please plan for a meal together, whether breakfast, lunch or dinner suits the time. I also ask that bottled water is available for every date.

If it is your first time or you have an access or communication need, you are welcome to tell me what would help you feel at ease. We can take things at a pace that feels natural.