AT YOUR OWN PACE

Your first time with me

A first meeting can bring a few butterflies. You can ask the practical questions before we meet, tell me what helps you feel at ease and choose a pace that feels comfortable.

Easy conversation begins before the date

If you prefer clear plans, I’m happy to discuss the time, meeting point and what to expect. If conversation or social cues sometimes take extra effort, you can tell me how you like to communicate. Direct questions are welcome and there is no need to pretend you feel more confident than you do.

Access and comfort

Disabled and neurodivergent guests are welcome. If mobility, step-free access, sensory surroundings, timing or travel affect your plans, let me know what would make the date easier. We can discuss the venue and practical arrangements in advance, without asking you to explain more about yourself than you wish.

Support from someone you trust

If a carer, assistant or another trusted person helps arrange a date, I’m happy to discuss the practical details with them when you want me to. Please make clear how you’d like us to communicate and who should receive a reply; your wishes and privacy remain central.

You can start with my experiences and rates, check availability and then send me a note. Tell me as much or as little as helps us make a thoughtful plan.